Okay, so about the whole wedding thing. Something very similar happened to me. I was invited to a very small game wedding, okay? And they had open bar, I just did air quotes on that open bar and the open bar consisted of 3, bottles of red and 3 bottles of white, well, being that it was a gay wedding. Uh, that wasn't going to last very long. So me, and some of the other gay guys. I don't know why I keep saying gay. Anyway, just assumed everybody from this point on is gay that I speak up, okay, we get in the car and we go down to the liquor store. We buy a party handle a vodka, a party handle a ROM, we go back, we tear that wedding up everybody's having such a great time. The Grooms are more than appreciative side note in the car. We all asked each other, how we knew the 1 G, we all met him on Grindr scandalous.