Good day, junkies rate. My divorce been happily divorced for 8 and a half years. My ex-wife did not think things through when she filed for divorce. Uh, the original reason, why is that she didn't want to have to pay me alimony once she got out of nurse practitioner School. However, over the years I got the correct answer is that she was cheating on me with a guy at work. He gave her an ultimatum. She did not act fast enough. He was in a relationship with by the time we were divorced. Um, she did not plan it out because she went from a day shift, to a mid shift. Meaning, I would have to come and stay the night at our marital house on days that she worked because she did not get home until midnight. So that was very weird and the fact that uh, she was trying to also recruit my friends and that's how I found out. She was actually cheating on me before we got divorced. Is because they told me the reason why she was divorcing me is that she was having an affair. I didn't find out until my friends told me. But uh she finally told me here.