Hey, y'all. I'd like to think I have some expert opinion on this. I've been with my husband for 11 years now, we actually have a News Junkie baby on the way, a but regarding the sick husband and His Bucket List and the wife, they should compromise. They should choose 1 crazy spot on his list and go do this lavish trip together, make the memories and then save the rest of the money for retirement, or nursing homes, or whatever the future may hold. But compromise is usually the best way to go thanks. Love you all.